The first Wednesday of each month is the perfect opportunity to share my insecurities on the #IWSG therapy couch, get encouragement and support about such insecurities, and to read how other writers are faring.
With the insanity of summer and kids being at home (my girls just started 10th, 8th, and 5th grades), I missed last month's posting. I'm glad to be back and look forward to checking in on as many people as I can.
Lately, my biggest fear is playing it too safe.
I've reached a point in my writing career (that shows a great first step, I called it career instead of something else) where I am not unhappy with my successes. However, I tend to be conservative... always playing it too safe.
To get to the next level, I have to take bigger chances and push the envelope. Which, inevitably, means there will be some failure.
Ugh. I. Hate. That. Word.
I know I can't get to the next step with a spotless record of success. I can't fear failure.
My self-confidence thanks you.
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Don't know if I can help. I've played it safe my whole career.
Well, that's a testament to playing it safe, Alex. I guess it's more about knowing when to push it and how each person defines safe, too. Thanks!
Well, I don't have any particular quote that I live by, writing-wise. I hate the "butte in chair, fingers on the keyboard" or whatever it is. I find that un-inspirational. I like the way most writers will say something to the effect of "never stop". I so often think I'll never be able to write another book. I've written five and I still think the last one will be the last one.
I don't have any quotes to share but I like that one.
My quote: "If it's important to you, you'll find a way. If it's not, you'll find an excuse." Failure is necessary. It teaches us what not to do. Remember, only those who take the leap of faith to try something new grow in their careers. <3
I can agree with you. I often play it safe and stay in my comfort zone. I decided as of Monday, no more. Good for you for getting back at it.
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